In this chapter Steve agrues that a woman’s love is different from a man’s love. In a word a woman’s love is kind, passionate, patient and nuturing, generous,  sweet and unconditional.  Mr.  Harvey goes on to say that if a woman is in love she will give her best no matter how many times her man slams the door on her.

Steve argues that a man’s love is different – it’s  more simple, direct, and harder to come by. If a man loves you he gives you a title – my woman, my girl, my lady. Giving a woman a title means he is claiming you as his. Another significant measure of a man’s love is his willingness to be a provider.  To bring home the bacon. He makes sure that you and the kids have what you need.  He says that is the primary role of a man. This is the very core of manhood. Steve goes on to say too many men shrink from this responsibility. Finally he says that when a man can’t provide economically he does other things- bring food from his frig, have his buddies help with car problems, but he makes every effort to provide.

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